I came up with this spread about a week ago and, seeing as today is my 14th wedding anniverary (time flies etc. etc.), now’s as good a time as any to post it! Relationship questions are probably the #1 reason people ask for tarot readings and it makes the job soooo much easier if you have a few core spreads at your fingertips for when the “What does my crush think about me?” question invariably arises.
This spread is good for someone – or two someones – who wants to gain insight into an existing relationship, or a potential one. It can even be expanded to include further partners, because each row asks the same questions – simply lay extra cards for Person C, D and so on. If you are reading on a potential relationship, rephrase questions to include a “could be”, for example: “Who could Person A be in Relation to B?” (in a relationship). This doesn’t necessarily have to be a love reading either; these questions could just as easily be applied to a friendship or other partnership.
I’ve phrased the questions to be as minimally invasive as possible, as I personally don’t like reading for a 3rd party who isn’t present and may not have given consent to have their cards read (cards 6 & 6 veer into somewhat tricky territory, so use your discretion and judgement when interpreting these positions).
Relationship Cross Spread
And as for my own relationship…
‘Nuff said ;D